sexual desire, sensuous, sexuality, aging sexuality

28 Feb

Age doesn’t define a woman’s sexual desire

If we are honest with ourselves, most of us would like to feel desirable. Women are raised to believe that being desired validates our womanliness—but...

create magic, redefining sexy, sexual agency, sexuality

04 Feb

When we create magic

Books were my first introduction to magic as a young child. Alice, magical tumbling down a rabbit hole, the door in the wardrobe leading to...

self-awareness, sexuality, ask for what you want, desire, voice

24 Aug

How do you see yourself? Are you taking ownership of your sexuality?

I shared an observation, which turned into a bit of a revelation, on my Facebook Page and my email newsletter. I want to make sure...

finding our voices, women's voice, empowerment, communication, relationships

09 Feb

Speaking Up for Yourself-It’s Time

How comfortable are you speaking up for yourself? One of the challenges women face is feeling comfortable speaking up for what they want. It seems so...

dick pics, sexting, penises, online dating, masculinity

11 Dec

Please don’t send “d–k pics”, really

Why, oh why, do so many men think women want to see their dick pics? I’ve been thinking about penetration and penises all morning…hazy memories of...

Inviting Desire-More than a book, a choice to live a different kind of life

In 2012 I wrote a 30-day series of articles entitled Awaken, Embrace, Ignite, on how to rekindle sexual desire. Over the last several years, I have...

23 Apr

What story have you made up about your sexuality?

I'm almost finished with my book, Inviting Desire, a unique approach to bringing desire back into your life--at midlife, or at any stage of life. [UPDATE:...

21 Jan

An Interview with Michaels and Johnson-Partners in Passion

Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson have been creative collaborators teaching and writing about relationships, sexuality, and Tantra together since 1999. Their two most recent books...

16 Dec

Do you need to focus on your relationships?

I'm participating in a project called Quest2016, run by Jeffrey Davis of Tracking Wonder. As part of this exercise we are given writing prompts 3 times...

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