Fireworks in the Bedroom

Fireworks in the Bedroom

sexual pleasure, fireworksIt’s been hot here in Virginia this last week. Sizzling hot. I live on a wooded lot without much sunshine. My back deck is surrounded by trees and offers a pretty isolated spot for private visits or quiet early morning meditation. One fantasy of mine that came to mind, not fruition, this week involves hot summer days, blaring sun and a out-of-doors tryst. There is a small sliver of the deck that gets sunshine around midday—the perfect spot for a hot lunchtime romp.

Making love outside in the hot sun, discreetly surrounded by greenery but still feeling like you’re visible. That feeling of intense heat surrounding and entering your body in every possible way. It’s on my ‘to-do’ list. I had been sending photos of the deck to the man I was seeing. Not elegant pictures, just a quick shot with a notation-12:22 pm. I was testing to see exactly what time of day would give us the most exposure, of the sun that is. It became our joke. We’re not seeing each other any more so it’s a fantasy I’ll have to continue to nurture. In one of our last emails, in the long process of saying good-bye, he innocuously noted, “It’s going to be a scorcher today.” It still brings a smile.

Fantasies are fabulous ways to create your own fireworks in the bedroom. They help to build and sustain excitement. Single or partnered it’s fun to conjure up sexy thoughts. So, while you’re contemplating a sizzling weekend here are a few of my most popular articles and a new one for your enjoyment. Happy 4th of July.

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Yes, It is Still Possible to Have a Hot Sex Life and Erectile Dysfunction

Sex At 60, A Personal Story

Sexuality- A Vital Conversation for Women Over 50 

The Story of a Black Corset 

Why Not Add More Pleasure to Your Life

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6 Comments
  • Ms. Quote
    Posted at 07:53h, 04 July Reply

    I wish I had a back yard like yours! I don’t think I’d ever want to leave the deck. Sounds like all kinds of fun.

    It sounds like you’re ending your relationship with dignity. It doesn’t mean that you won’t experience some bumps along the road, but I’m sure there’s a man out there who will treasure the woman you are and will be a rich part of your life in many ways.

    • Walker
      Posted at 08:06h, 04 July Reply

      It is quite lovely out there and when the leaves are out it’s very private. I love it, one of the reasons I stay in this too large house!

  • Carol Cassara
    Posted at 09:39h, 04 July Reply

    Wear your sunscreen, girlfriend, and make sure he does the same! Me? I like a comfy bed, a/c and and electrical outlet. If you know what I mean. Hot,sweaty, sun-sex not my cup of tea. But enjoy the spirit of your idea, nonetheless. With sunscreen.

    • Walker
      Posted at 11:18h, 06 July Reply

      Sunscreen is always a good idea. I prefer the creatures comforts as well but sometimes fantasies involve the new, the untried, the exotic…

  • Kathy @ SMART Living 365
    Posted at 16:48h, 05 July Reply

    Hi Walker! Happy 4th…and yes, fireworks in the bedroom or elsewhere are definitely the BEST kind! 🙂 Although I live in the desert southwest and outdoor sunshine sex doesn’t even come close to fitting in my fantasies. Warm summer nights? Now that’s another story….

    • Walker
      Posted at 11:20h, 06 July Reply

      I guess living in the southwest would put a different spin on things.

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