It’s been hot here in Virginia this last week. Sizzling hot. I live on a wooded lot without much sunshine. My back deck is surrounded by trees and offers a pretty isolated spot for private visits or quiet early morning meditation. One fantasy of mine that came to mind, not fruition, this week involves hot summer days, blaring sun and a out-of-doors tryst. There is a small sliver of the deck that gets sunshine around midday—the perfect spot for a hot lunchtime romp.
Making love outside in the hot sun, discreetly surrounded by greenery but still feeling like you’re visible. That feeling of intense heat surrounding and entering your body in every possible way. It’s on my ‘to-do’ list. I had been sending photos of the deck to the man I was seeing. Not elegant pictures, just a quick shot with a notation-12:22 pm. I was testing to see exactly what time of day would give us the most exposure, of the sun that is. It became our joke. We’re not seeing each other any more so it’s a fantasy I’ll have to continue to nurture. In one of our last emails, in the long process of saying good-bye, he innocuously noted, “It’s going to be a scorcher today.” It still brings a smile.
Fantasies are fabulous ways to create your own fireworks in the bedroom. They help to build and sustain excitement. Single or partnered it’s fun to conjure up sexy thoughts. So, while you’re contemplating a sizzling weekend here are a few of my most popular articles and a new one for your enjoyment. Happy 4th of July.