Who’s in Control of Your Sex Life?
During the pandemic I’ve watched lots of TV, streaming to be exact. Recently I started watching Bones, a forensic-type cop show—casting several very thin, very...
08
Sep
Relationships
21
Aug
When we want too much…or not enough: Prioritizing ourselves in relationships
“Somedays I still tell myself to take what is offered, because if it isn’t enough, it is I who wants too much.” The Crane Wife,...
16
Jul
Embracing our aging, scars and all
I am standing naked in front of the full length bathroom mirror looking at my scar. It is 9 inches long, starting just below that little...
18
Apr
Changing our relationship to sex, sexuality, and our bodies
Why are we so uncomfortable with sex? Seeing it, talking about it, having it, making it work for us. Let's talk about changing our relationship...
01
Mar
Repeat Yourself: Say yes, again and again and again
Repeat yourself. Not, as some of us tend to do, in sharing the same story over and over…but in a way that says, “This, this moment,...
24
Aug
How do you see yourself? Are you taking ownership of your sexuality?
I shared an observation, which turned into a bit of a revelation, on my Facebook Page and my email newsletter. I want to make sure...
23
Jun
Communication is the key to better sex
Oh, the things that happen when we allow ourselves to be vulnerable and talk about what matters to us. As I explore the ways we...
28
Apr
Q&A: Why Women Censor Their Voices in Relationships
Today's Q&A looks at why women censor their voices in relationships--with men. I do think that underneath Candy's question is the deeper one of gender, and...
Valentine’s Day–Giving From the Heart, Not the Wallet
It's the day before Valentine's Day. Some of you are in a panic about this--what to get her, what does she want? What can I...
Truth telling. It’s like loosening the laces on your corset
As you know, I’ve been writing about personal things lately. I always get reflective and a bit gushy as a new year approaches. I’m still speaking...
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