Where a Sex Writer and Educator Reveals Herself to a Prospective Date
So what happens when a 59-year-old woman starts online dating---again? More specifically when said woman has an unusual name and an unusual job? She doesn't...
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How to Rekindle Sexual Desire
In my last article I spoke to a reader's question about how to rekindle her sexual desire. I talked about steps she could take, on...
Q&A-Help, I’ve Lost My Sexual Desire
I got a question today from a woman who is on a medication that has taken away her sexual desire. As she says, "zero, zip,...
Aging and Sexuality-These Grannies Are Strutting Their Stuff
This series of mature women posing in classic pin-up shots from an earlier time popped up on Nerve.com recently. I posted it on my Facebook...
The Pleasure Plan 2014
At the beginning of the year, I wrote about my Pleasure Plan for 2014. I want to share the full article with you and encourage...
What Happens When We Refuse to Be Defined by Others
Why do we allow ourselves to be defined by others? Why do we try to reshape ourselves? We try to become the 'perfect' daughter, the...
Celebrating Diversity, Collaboration and Conversation-CatalystCon
The schwag bag has been opened. The Lube Shooter, lubricant delivery device, is still in its package---where it will remain. The Kinklab Bondage tape is...
Imagine It, Create It-Step Into Your Desire
We have so many words, spoken and unspoken, that define our sexual desire. When the words are negative they get in the way. And when...
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Are You Attracting the Wrong Guys on Dating Sites?- A Reader’s Question
This is a question I got from a long time reader of my blogs. She has a solid job in a field that is traditionally...
The Practice of Love-It takes work to build a strong relationship
It's not enough to be in love, we have to practice love. Paraphrasing Brene Brown---Yes! That's what a strong relationship looks like--practicing love. Because the myth of...
Over-Medicated? A Visual Of the Reach of the Pharmaceutical Industry
Wow! I’m not vouching for this, but it does seem well-researched. The next time someone suggests you pop a pill, think about it first. I wanted...
Looking for a Relationship When You’re Over 60
Today's question is from Maggie- I am a 68 year old woman with the sexual desires of a 21 year old. Where does a 68 y/o meet...
News Flash: Libidos Running Wild, Midlife Women Let Loose
Many thanks to Mike Huckabee for giving me the idea for this article. Reengage With The Sexy You for Valentine's Day Ladies, are you in control of...
Answering Your Questions about Sex and Relationships
So many people have questions about sex and relationships but they hold back from asking out of embarrassment, shame and often because they don't know...
Opposite-Sex Friendships: Can We Just Be Friends?
Can a man and a woman just be friends? It's a question that gets asked every day, in real life and in the movies. It's...