The case for self-pleasuring
With spring finally here and the juicy energy warm weather brings, it's a perfect time to explore the sexual side of life. I want to share some thoughts...
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An intimate conversation about casual sex–just you and me
One of my older male readers wants to know how to find a woman for casual sex. I don't know how to tell him where to...
Research on Older Adults & Sexual Health
A national sexual health survey, released in November 2014, examines the impact of sexual health issues on overall health, happiness, and communication among 3,015 US adults in...
Sex in Movies–Not Realistic From This Woman’s Point of View
If you're looking for ideas about how to have better sex you won't find it in mainstream movies. There are exceptions of course, but most movies...
Not in the Mood for Sex?
When was the last time you said, "I'm not in the mood"? What do we mean when we say that? You have no actual desire. Your...
Wanting Sexual Intimacy Should Not be a Stigma
I'm writing about Hot Octopuss and their products because it's relevant to our world of sexuality, specifically male sexuality. We don't often talk about male sex...
Selling My House-Memories, Stuff, Emotions
I'm in the process of getting my house ready to sell. So that means it's time to go through 16 years of collected, neglected and...
Strengthening Our Relationships-The Sex Date
This article first appeared on Better After 50, but seems appropriate for any time of the year. Valentine's Day is over but we always need...
A Valentine’s Gift He’ll Remember
I thought I'd share this Valentine's Day article I wrote last year for Better After 50. If you're the gift-giving type, rather than think about...
Men Working in Male Sexuality
I've invited a few of the men who work in the field of male sexuality to talk about their work and thoughts on sexuality. It's only a beginning,...
What Happens When We Say Yes to Sex?
As many of you know, I'm the Sexual Health columnist for Midlife Boulevard. My most recent article, Learn To Say Yes and Make Your Sex...
Male sexuality in the news
Here are a few recent news articles on male sexuality I thought you might find interesting. I am not endorsing anything you read here nor...
How to identify sexy when we see it
What does sexy really look like? I'm not talking The Sexiest Man of the Year sexy--because that's all about image and visuals. Though George Clooney...
Private Gym-Program for Male Sexual Health
One of the challenges many men face in the aging process is diminished sexual functioning. Men who begin to have issues with erections want answers...
Q&A-How Much Sex Do You Want?
This isn't my typical Q&A as this reader figured out her issues on her own, with the help of a great doctor. Her doctor was...