What story have you made up about your sexuality?
I'm almost finished with my book, Inviting Desire, a unique approach to bringing desire back into your life--at midlife, or at any stage of life. [UPDATE:...
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Sex Advice: Fact or Fiction? Useful or Slick Marketing?
Who do you trust for up-to-date, reliable news about sex? I see lots of articles telling women what to do to make their bodies more...
Planning For Sex In Your Old Age
My article this month for Midlife Boulevard looks at aging, long-term care and planning for our sex lives. The topic has risen to our attention...
Valentine’s Day–Giving From the Heart, Not the Wallet
It's the day before Valentine's Day. Some of you are in a panic about this--what to get her, what does she want? What can I...
An Interview with Michaels and Johnson-Partners in Passion
Mark Michaels and Patricia Johnson have been creative collaborators teaching and writing about relationships, sexuality, and Tantra together since 1999. Their two most recent books...
Age is no excuse for feeling stuck!
If I count back from my first sexual experience, at age 17, it's taken me almost 40 years to discover that a gentle nibble on...
Truth telling. It’s like loosening the laces on your corset
As you know, I’ve been writing about personal things lately. I always get reflective and a bit gushy as a new year approaches. I’m still speaking...
I choose Desire for 2016. What will you invite into your life?
For the last several years I've chosen a word to guide me through the year rather than making resolutions. Last year is was all about...
Holidays Got You Stressed? Five Ways Having Sex Will Help
This article first appeared on Midlife Boulevard. The focus may be on the holidays but remember that the benefits to having an active sex life...
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Do you need to focus on your relationships?
I'm participating in a project called Quest2016, run by Jeffrey Davis of Tracking Wonder. As part of this exercise we are given writing prompts 3 times...
What Men Want to Know about Erectile Dysfunction Drugs
It seems to me that men, and their partners, have questions about ED drugs that aren't readily available or maybe even easily answered? Cialis, Levitra...
When sustaining a business is like sustaining an intimate connection
Doing the numbers here for October. My income is pretty low this month. That kinda sucks--the words I scribbled in today's journal. And the words that...
Pleasure – why aren’t we seeking more of it in our lives?
Most conferences these days feature ‘swag’ bags. When you go to a sexuality conference you can always count on a wide array of enticing goodies....
Wanting to be taken care of
We were standing in front of Penn Station talking about why I didn't need him to come down to the waiting area with me. I...
Finding Our Voice–How It Benefits our Relationships and Sex Lives
There are lots of ways we add that extra bit of oomph to our relationships--communication is one of the best ways to strengthen our connections with...