Age doesn’t define a woman’s sexual desire
If we are honest with ourselves, most of us would like to feel desirable. Women are raised to believe that being desired validates our womanliness—but...
If we are honest with ourselves, most of us would like to feel desirable. Women are raised to believe that being desired validates our womanliness—but...
If I'm being completely honest with myself, I've become less focused and more disorganized since leaving the 'real' work world--some 9 years ago. Easily distracted,...
Welcome to Aging Unapologetically. My work has expanded and my new look for the website reflects my broader focus on women, aging, and sexuality. Our sexuality,...
Books have always held power for me, particular books sharing women's voices. This year I'm reading books by women; books about women. I'm catching up...
WARNING When I am an old woman I shall wear purple With a red hat which doesn't go, and doesn't suit me. And I shall spend my pension...
I grew up with Disney’s Snow White and Sleeping Beauty. The magical moment when the woodland creatures help Cinderella with the ball gown. I believed...
What do we do when tradition no longer serves us? When, as women, we find ourselves hampered by tradition and its teachings? These are the...
It's been so long since I wrote here that I don't even know where to start. I feel like I don't know what to write--or...
Of course I can’t give you permission—that’s not my job. And as I said, in the tiny print at the bottom, you don’t need permission,...
Repeat yourself. Not, as some of us tend to do, in sharing the same story over and over…but in a way that says, “This, this moment,...
Books were my first introduction to magic as a young child. Alice, magical tumbling down a rabbit hole, the door in the wardrobe leading to...
I have been taking regular pictures of a large oak tree over the last several months--documenting change brought by the sunlight, the time of day...
My goal as an author and educator is to challenge and change the cultural message about women's sexuality. Out of curiosity I asked Facebook followers...
Vibrators, it's a big industry and a wonderful tool for giving us, or a loved one, sexual pleasure. As part of my sexual health column...