What Happens When We Refuse to Be Defined by Others
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Celebrating Diversity, Collaboration and Conversation-CatalystCon
The schwag bag has been opened. The Lube Shooter, lubricant delivery device, is still in its package---where it will remain. The Kinklab Bondage tape is...
Imagine It, Create It-Step Into Your Desire
We have so many words, spoken and unspoken, that define our sexual desire. When the words are negative they get in the way. And when...
10
Mar
Are You Attracting the Wrong Guys on Dating Sites?- A Reader’s Question
This is a question I got from a long time reader of my blogs. She has a solid job in a field that is traditionally...
The Practice of Love-It takes work to build a strong relationship
It's not enough to be in love, we have to practice love. Paraphrasing Brene Brown---Yes! That's what a strong relationship looks like--practicing love. Because the myth of...
Over-Medicated? A Visual Of the Reach of the Pharmaceutical Industry
Wow! I’m not vouching for this, but it does seem well-researched. The next time someone suggests you pop a pill, think about it first. I wanted...
Looking for a Relationship When You’re Over 60
Today's question is from Maggie- I am a 68 year old woman with the sexual desires of a 21 year old. Where does a 68 y/o meet...
News Flash: Libidos Running Wild, Midlife Women Let Loose
Many thanks to Mike Huckabee for giving me the idea for this article. Reengage With The Sexy You for Valentine's Day Ladies, are you in control of...
Answering Your Questions about Sex and Relationships
So many people have questions about sex and relationships but they hold back from asking out of embarrassment, shame and often because they don't know...
Opposite-Sex Friendships: Can We Just Be Friends?
Can a man and a woman just be friends? It's a question that gets asked every day, in real life and in the movies. It's...
Why Not Add More Pleasure to Your Life?
It's that time of year. We're thinking about our resolutions and goals for the new year. I always have the best of intentions; this time...
09
Oct
Learning How to Talk About Sex
Women in their 50s, 60s and 70s were typically raised to be less vocal, or cautioned to be gentler, less assertive in their communications. To...
15
May
Let’s Celebrate! It’s National Masturbation Month
I wrote this back in 2013 and I still feel it is important to use the words and talk about the benefits of masturbation as...
24
Sep
Want Pleasure? Learn How to Become More Orgasmic
Many women have never experienced an orgasm. It's true, though if you ask a group of women if they are orgasmic you may not get...
09
Nov
How A Broken Bone Becomes a Metaphor For Personal Healing
When I misstepped off that concrete step in July I never thought it would have such an impact on my life. I broke the 5th...